How to Invite a Girl on a Date

The main rule: if you like a girl, pull yourself together and come to get acquainted. Each experience is always worth trying. It also refers to online contacts. Whenever you catch a sight of an attractive girl, start chatting. If you fall for a girl you are acquainted with, the rule is still workable. No matter what they say, women still prefer men who initiate dating photo.


Let us have a deeper look into each of these scenarios:

  • Inviting a strange girl you have by chance met in a restaurant, at a party, or even crossing by her is a brave step. You need to be capable of on-the-spot decisions and actions. To lower the risk of being rejected, you can start with asking for a phone number. Got it? You are on a halfway to success. Later that day or the next one, give her a call, reminding who you are and where you met. If it is needed, you can prepare beforehand to suggest the place and time of the meeting. Prepare a “B” plan if she turns out to be busy the day you ask her out.
  • If you begin with online chatting, it is possible to find out the preferences of your date-to-be. After you have collected the basic info, choose a suitable place and time. Thus, you will increase the chances that your proposal will be accepted.
  • Provided you are already in acquaintance with the girl you want to go out with, it facilitates the choice of a perfect venue. Though you should think over a proper way of inviting her. Beware of the friend zone, make sure she gets it is a date, not just a two friends get-together.

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What to Pay Attention At

Above are some opportunities to invite a girl. But there are some basic tips to be taken care of. Here they are:

  • Take care of your appearance. You have only one opportunity of the foremost impression. It has nothing to do with brand clothes, be neat, showered and clean.
  • Always be polite, avoid rude words. Do not discuss taboo topics (religion, sexism, politics) unless you are sure that it will not badly influence your relations.
  • Show sympathy and be sensitive to whatever she says. Remember, girls prefer caring and attentive men.
  • Which girl doesn’t like gifts? You are right, none. You can bring flowers or sweets, depending on what you want and can afford.
  • Do not forget about compliments; they can be even flattering, but not too much.

Do you want the next date with her? Do you plan for a future with her? Set the next date and make a call before it. Wow, looks like you are ready. Go for her, don’t be shy! And prepare for a kiss.

Things To Avoid During Your First Date

A first date can be stressful and disastrous, as well as a fun and enjoyable, experience. Of course, practice makes perfect. However, it is better to learn from the mistakes of others than from your own embarrassing social blunders. Here are the five most common deal breakers you should definitely avoid when meeting a potential partner for the first time.

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 1. Do Not Be Self-Centered

Nobody likes those narcissistic individuals who only talk about themselves. However, it is also natural for people who are nervous to do exactly that. No matter how anxious you feel or how fascinating you think your life is, be considerate. Ask your date about him/herself, prepare some questions beforehand if you tend to get nervous. Build up a dialog, a mutually pleasant exchange of ideas and impressions. It is well-known that expressing genuine interest in the other person is an effective seduction technique. The opposite will only make you come across as an egomaniac.

 2. Do Not Expect Too Much
A first date is your first face-to-face encounter, an opportunity to create a favorable impression and get to know each other, to bring the nonverbal element into your communication. It is not the right occasion for you to get overly serious and start planning your future life together. Never jump into the subject of eternal love and marriage the first time you see your date, as this feels like pressure.

 3. Do Not Talk about Your Past Relationships

Usually, it is something few people want to be told about if they only just met you. First, it might imply you have not yet moved on from your heartbreak, which means you aren’t ready for anything new. Secondly, describing other lovers you have had is hardly appealing. If your date does want to know, give her the outline, but skip the details. Your focus must be the future and the person sitting in front of you, so do not dwell on the past, describing how your ex wronged you.  

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4. Do Not Get Too Personal

Do not try to psychoanalyze your date or make your dinner feel like police questioning. Nobody likes being scrutinized like some extraterrestrial specimen. Ask questions, but do not break etiquette rules. Let your potential partner tell you what they are ready and willing to tell. Tell them you appreciate the honesty if they happen to admit something deeply personal, but never pressure anyone into doing so. And, naturally, never suggest meeting at your place. This never sends a positive message

5. Do Not Be Suggestive about Sex

This is a strong deterrent, especially if you are seeking something more than a fling. Of course, nowadays social norms are shifting and you might both get passionate by the end of the evening, but never make sex a conversation topic. Your date should see that you are fascinated by their personality and life story, not only their body.